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3/25/12

Our attitudes and perceptions

Attitude is the foundation and support of everything we do, a key element in the process of controlling your destiny and achieving mastery in your personal and professional life. Your attitude dictates whether you are living life or life is living you. Attitude determines where you are on the way or in the way.

Many of our self-defeating beliefs have to do with our attitude perceptions.  Do you feel stuck, overlooked, unappreciated, or unfulfilled? If you answered yes to one or more of the questions, that could be you have an attitude that is holding you back. Having a bad attitude can generate a lot of stress in our personal and professional lives. Sometimes a time out to perform a mental inventory is required when we begin to experience chaos and negative stress in our life. When we identify through self awareness the attitudes that hold us back we can transform them into learning points to turn our attitude into action and regain peace and balance, success and health back into our life experience.
The ability to recognize our feelings as they come over us is called self-awareness and it is critical to our development in a highly mobile, fast changing and complex society. Self-awareness allows you to be aware of your emotions and attitudes. Knowing yourself and understanding what drives your attitude and emotions is the first step to self-knowledge and self-control. When you practice self awareness you give yourself far greater control of your actions. This control gives you options. You can decide not to react to negative emotions. Instead you can develop a positive attitude that allows you to let go of the emotion. You can also channel the energy of the negative emotion into a positive action. You have to take responsibility for your attitude and for your success whether it be on the job, relationship, family or spiritual evolution. Realizing and embodying this truth gets us out of the blame game and allows us to toss the emotional baggage.
These are the most common negative perceptions: 
1) If Only: this imprint perception has to do with the past. It is full of unfinished business, plans that went awry, hurt feelings that have not healed. If Only sounds like this if only, I'd thought before I said that, I had not had that last drink, I'd stayed in school, I'd listened to my parents, I'd taken precautionary measures, I'd spent more time with my children, I had not given in to my desires, I'd kept my mouth shut.
2) What Now: this imprint perception is packed under pressure of the present. It is heavy with stress and weighty expectations. It is packed with good news as well as bad news, however the person who carries this, chooses a negative response rather than a positive one. As a result one becomes paralyzed. This imprint perception sound like this: My spouse is unhappy, What now?, I am going to graduate with high debt. What now?, What now?, I have been downsized. What now?, I have two projects due on the same day. What now? The key to release this attitude perception is to focus on opportunities and solutions rather than on potentially negative consequences or problems.
3) What If: this imprint perception is packed with worries about the future usually focused on negative outcome. It sounds like this what if, I lose my job?, I have a health problem?, The money runs out?, I end up alone?, My spouse leaves me?, The stock market crashes?, I blow my trading account?, Global warming kills us all? When we fixate on the problems we become paralyzed.These are negative mental imprints that can be only remove with guidance counseling and other energy healing techniques.
  
Some bad attitudes are often the product of past life experiences and event imprints held in our energetic field and become active when we experience certain stimulus. 
The negative perceptions can be remove with guided visualizations, positive affirmations, in some cases soul retrieval and spiritual counseling. 
The negative lens perception can be cleared through the quantum energy clearings and auric clearing. Also, a  positive attitude perception begins with a clear lens through which one can see clearly.

Love, 


Rosa 

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